Two Japanese gay men and a baby


The 2001 comedy/soap opera “Hush!”, written and directed by Hashiguchi Ryosuke is very confusing at first. It runs two and a quarter hours with some scenes that go on too long and jumps abruptly, leaving the audience to impose a time scheme. Some of the shot set-ups are questionable and, as in Hashiguchi’s earlier films, many are held at Ozu-like length. Despite the alien rhythm of the movie and differences between what Japanese audiences find funny and what I find funny, I gradually figured out who the main characters were and came to find them engaging. I am especially interested in how Japanese gay men cope with a highly regimented society with very narrow (Confucian) expectations about the duty to perpetuate the male line.

“Hush!” shows somewhat greater ability (or willingness?) to recognize that a son/brother might be gay (and the word itself is used and understood by the characters, replacing the pejorative labels current in “Okogé”). The mother of the more butch and reticent gay male partner, Katsuhiro (Tanabe Seiichi) is convinced that he will have his male genital equipment removed and have breast implants, but the man’s niece, aged around ten, has a more matter-of-fact sense that gay men who do not want to be women exist. Moreover, Katsuhiro’s brother (the girl’s father, Shoji, played by Mitsuishi Ken) is accepting and somewhat discomfits Katsuhiro when he tells him that Katsuhiro’s sexual orientation is no surprise to him. (Katsuhiro is unpleasantly surprised that his orientation is obvious to several characters, after tentative attempts (at different times) to come out to two co-workers in a boat-building enterprise fail.)

His partner, Naoya (Takahashi Kazuya), works in a pet store/dog-grooming business, and is more open about being gay (though he also has a mother whose understanding of what being gay might mean is rather far off the mark). The movie starts with a trick leaving Naoya’s apartment and Katsuhiro has moved in with Naoya between scenes, leaving the audience guessing how long they have been living together when two women (separately) throw themselves at the polite but remote Katsuhiro. One is a shy and delusional coworker) named Yôko (Kurita Yoko). The other, Asako (Kataoka Reiko), is a sexually experienced (in her doctor’s nastily censorious view, promiscuous) dental-crown maker who is fed up with selfish straight men and decides she wants to have Katsuhiro’s child. Not that she knows him! She knows that he has a male partner and that he is considerate, because Katsuhiro gave her an umbrella after hers had been stolen in a restaurant where Katsuhiro and Naoya had also been lunching.


Katsuhiro is not much given to discussing intimate matters with anyone, and is understandably startled by being asked if he is engaged to Yoko (one of Yoko’s delusions), asked if Naoya is his life partner (which he acknowledges with a gulp and some chagrin at being cased out so easily as gay in the restaurant). Asako then informs him that she wants to have his baby. Not to have a relationship with him, not to have sex with him, but to use his sperm to fertilize her. The basis for this choice, she announces, is that he has “father eyes.” I would imagine that Katsuhiro’s eyes are bulging at this point, but there is not the close-up one would expect. He does not know what to say, but does think about the idea of paternity.

Recalling Ang Lee’s “The Wedding Banquet” more than a little, Naoya first blows up when he learns of the proposition, but then becomes a pal of Asako (though plenty irritated that Katsuhiro is not more brutal to Yoko’s delusions of a romance). There is a very formal family visit that I find hilarious (compensating for not getting some of the humor Japanese see elsewhere?). Naoya, Katsuhiro, and Asako are all seemingly petrified as Katsuhiro’s brother-in-law and Naoya’s mother denounce Katsuhiro — not for his gay relationship, but for being unfaithful to Naoya with two women. (Yoko has sent them a dossier on Asako’s disreputable past that included at least one suicide attempt and two abortions, and restating her view that Katsuhiro is engaged to marry Yoko.) Katsuhiro is again mortified, though the scene is especially interesting in contrast to the family conclave in “Okoge.”

There are more bumps in the road (including a way-too-long scene of the three on a river bank) before an entertainingly if conventional happy ending (though it, too, has something of a twist). Having reached it, I went back to watch the first ten minutes again. That this was necessary reflects a lack of ability on the part of the director Ryosuke Hashiguchi to communicate information the audience needs, but that I was willing to spend more time indicates that I eventually cared who the characters were and how Naoya and Katsuhiro first met (and who was riding to work on a bicycle rather insecurely locked before and after the ride…)

The movie has an unusual but engaging soundtrack by Bobby McFerrin.

©2016, Stephen O. Murray


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